Making a lesbian dating
No exploration is private and everyone in the community has a judgment and an opinion about it. Yes, they may be sitting across a coffee table and telling you so with almost puppy dog eyes, but no one is really single in the lesbian scene.
So, develop a thick skin and learn to keep explorations, dates, introspection of your romance and love life off your Facebook updates/wallposts! There is some undercurrent always going on— friends with benefits, one night stands, exes with physical strings attached.
She might soon be a part of the same group or dating a close friend and having to eat every nasty thing you said about her could give you a serious case of indigestion!
Nonetheless, it’s a tough art to master— to steel yourself and smile as you watch an ex-girlfriend or fling move on with ease.
And trust me, the chemistry that can get sparked and the intelligent banter that can take place in a chat window is phenomenal.
Comments, pictures and of course reading up views of common friends comes in handy to know what you might be getting into before you go on a date!
So if you are "coming out" to yourself and being openly proud of your own sexuality, get prepared for the spotlight.
If you are reasonably presentable, own your own wheels/pad and are financially stable, women will woo you and how! You will be quizzed on everything— from past, present to minutiae like favourite colour and fantasy!
The limelight will stay perhaps only till you give in— and change your status from single/virgin to complicated, in a relationship or a slut on heat!By Tappy Tippy It’s a minefield— when you are dating someone of the same sex.And especially if the sex happens to be the fairer one! You deal with the same issues— shopping, PMS, body-weight issues, gossip and then the sulks, mood swings, tantrums and the joy. Here are my rules to make your way through the Indian lesbian dating scene…Rule No 1: You are hot property but act fast Yes, you are hot property!Bi-curious, Bi-sexual, Women in open Rrelationships, married but mingling with the Same Sex…